Nearly two years ago, I wrote a post titled "No News," in response to a comment from a reader who expressed concern over not having seen a post in a long while.
At the time, no news was good news. Life was busy, chaotic, and fun. We were a family of four, happily chugging through life. Creating memories, traditions and routines.
But now, no news is not good news. On March 29, 2018, our family changed when we lost our sweet Claire. Suddenly, unexpectedly, without any indication.
It has been almost four months since Claire passed away, but the pain and sadness is just as raw. Brad and I spend a lot of time comforting one another and striving to create joy and happiness for our son Caleb, who is now three.
We are still trying to process Claire's loss. Not a day goes by that we don't miss her, and on many days, I find myself crying -- in my car, in my office, on airplanes, and even while watching my son get his hair cut.
To help me work through my grief, I've decided to return to this blog. My hope is to record my thoughts and feelings here, using the blog as an outlet for healing. In the very least, my entries might give me something to look back on years from now, to help me remember these days, just like my early writings help me relive those joyful, hopeful, and sometimes scary early moments of Claire's life.
If you are reading this, I hope you will join me on this journey and find some value in my words. In the very least, I hope you receive a small glimpse into the beautiful life we had with Claire and the transformation we are undergoing as we move into this next chapter.
This Blog Is About So Much More Than Hydrocephalus
Wednesday, July 18, 2018
Friday, August 5, 2016
No News
Recently, I read a comment from a passer-by who expressed concern that they had not seen a post from us in a very long time. They were worried that the silence meant things were not going well with Claire.
I'm very happy to report that "no news is good news"! We are doing GREAT!
In fact, Claire has made significant progress with her communication. These days, she is answering "yes/no" questions by clicking her tongue, and we are having entire conversations! It's amazing!
At the moment, Claire's biggest issue is her little brother, who joined our family in 2014. He is currently 20 months old and spends most of his day running around our house laughing and tormenting Claire and our cat, Oliver.
Life is good. Chaotic, but good.
I'm very happy to report that "no news is good news"! We are doing GREAT!
In fact, Claire has made significant progress with her communication. These days, she is answering "yes/no" questions by clicking her tongue, and we are having entire conversations! It's amazing!
At the moment, Claire's biggest issue is her little brother, who joined our family in 2014. He is currently 20 months old and spends most of his day running around our house laughing and tormenting Claire and our cat, Oliver.
Life is good. Chaotic, but good.
Friday, May 23, 2014
Summer Fun
Claire is clearly ready for some summer fun at the playground with her shades, her fan, and her bubble machine.
Although she has had a little summer cold this week, she has been in great spirits! Hopefully, her cough will go away soon so we can enjoy the neighborhood pool!
Sunday, May 18, 2014
Saturday, May 3, 2014
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